Recently, I had the chance to hang out with a couple of younger friends—both in their late 30s and early 40s.
As we relaxed by the lake, our conversation naturally drifted toward health and wellness.
They started sharing how they felt puffy, and bloated, and were gaining weight, especially around their middle.
Energy levels were dipping, anxiety was creeping in, and they were experiencing aches and pains that seemed to come out of nowhere.
Listening to them brought back memories of my own transition into this season of life.
At 56, I've walked the path they're just beginning to navigate, and it's a journey that many of us are familiar with—welcome to the world of perimenopause.
Perimenopause is a phase that often takes us by surprise.
It's a time of transition that can start as early as your late 30s and continue well into your 40s and beyond.
This period can last up to 10 years and is marked by significant changes in our bodies, minds, and emotions.
Many women don’t even realize they're entering this phase until they're already deep into it.
The symptoms can be varied and, at times, confusing—irregular cycles, night sweats, low-level anxiety, brain fog, and unexpected weight gain are just a few of the challenges that may arise.
As I sat with my friends, listening to their concerns, I found myself nodding along, recognizing all the signs of early perimenopause.
The hormonal fluctuations that accompany this transition are real, and they impact every aspect of our well-being.
The brain, body, and hormones are all going through a significant transformation, and what used to work for us in our 20s and 30s may no longer be effective.
This is a time to be gentle with ourselves and understand that these changes are normal—there's nothing wrong with you. It's simply your body adapting to a new phase of life.
The foods you eat play a crucial role in how you feel and how well your body copes with the hormonal shifts of this season.
That’s why I love the Trim Healthy eating plan. It focuses on whole, real foods that are rich in fiber, polyphenols, vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants.
Eating more vegetables is also important during this time.
Cruciferous veggies like broccoli, cauliflower, and leafy greens help detoxify the liver and clear out excess estrogens.
This is vital as our livers can become sluggish, leading to estrogen dominance, which can make symptoms like bloating and weight gain worse.
Don’t skip your veggies—they're your best friends during this phase of life.
Protein also plays a key role in supporting our changing bodies.
Aim for three to four servings of protein a day to help maintain muscle mass, curb cravings, and manage blood sugar levels.
Your muscle is your longevity system, so weight training should take priority over cardio.
Building muscle not only helps with fat loss but also supports overall strength and resilience as we get older.
The perimenopause years aren't just about what we eat—it's also a time to learn how to manage stress.
High cortisol levels, triggered by chronic stress, can lead to increased fat storage, particularly around the abdomen.
It's crucial to find ways to reduce stress and support our bodies during this time.
Self-care practices like deep breathing, meditation, gentle walks, and yoga have become essential for me. Journaling and prayer also help me process my emotions and keep high stress at bay.
Learning to say no is another powerful tool.
In our 30s and 40s, we often have to balance the demands of children, careers, and possibly even caring for aging parents.
It's easy to fall into the trap of trying to do it all, but this can lead to burnout.
Listen to your body—it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your well-being.
Start a self-care habit earlier rather than later, and don't be afraid to step back and say no when necessary.
Sleep is another area that requires special attention during this phase.
As hormones fluctuate, sleep can become more elusive.
Focus on creating a bedtime routine that supports your circadian rhythm—dim the lights in the evening, avoid blue light, and try to eat your last meal a few hours before bed.
Sleeping in a cool, dark room and using sleep aids like magnesium or melatonin can also be helpful.
As we transition through perimenopause and into menopause, it’s important to remember that this is a natural part of life.
It's a time to be kind to yourself and make adjustments that support your changing body.
Clean eating, regular weight training, stress management, and prioritizing sleep are all key components to navigating this season with grace and resilience.
Looking back, I wish I had started some of these practices earlier, but it's never too late to make positive changes.
If you're in your 30s or 40s, I encourage you to start now—focus on what you're putting into your body and how you're taking care of yourself.
These small adjustments can make a big difference in how you feel and how well you transition into the next phase of life.
You’ve got this, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.
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